On sex before marriage

The best thing to do is to wait to have sex until you are married but if you couldn't wait like me, just be responsible about it. Enough said. Why give you a lecture on a subject that you can research for yourself through your own experiences.. I think lessons about love and sex are individual and self-research based and were never meant to be spoonfed. I could be wrong but that's my belief. I am of the view that we learn more efficiently when we experience things for ourselves instead of being told what to expect.Whether you choose to get down and dirty before or after marriage, it really doesn't make that much of a difference if you promise to act responsibly in either situation cause there are plenty of irresponsible married adults who are having sex and the consequences are fatal. It's not enough to be smart, you have to act smart too. Peer pressure has a place in your growth but not in your future.